There is no term in the language for this, but we believe we get it, this is when a person actively works against love; and how is this done, by not caring- by not caring, a person shows their true heart. Here is what it appears as; visits which don't get made, time together that doesn't happen, phone calls that don't take place, meetings that you miss without good cause, times you just aren't there to listen, when you used to be. Getting the picture, anti-love, is called apathy, which is a lack of caring, a lack of concern for the other person. Apathy may also be expressed as over concern for ones own existence without consideration to the existence of others. Ler's exemplify that with the scenario of the person who knows of a family which has need, a fire has taken their clothing; but, rather than go to them and provide soothing, they wrap the clothes into a bag and leave it on the porch. That action is more concerned with their comfort than the soothing they might provide to the people needing it. When this goes on and on, it's important to realize that this can creep into your life so quickly and in such a slippery manner that before you know it you aren't even thinking about the ills of others, nor how anyone else feels. This condition can also be helped along by overemphasis on items which have distant contact value, such as national level issues, over those which are personal and therefore have contact and involvment value, before you know it and realize it, you aren't having to do with others much at all- other than professionally; and so, your heart begins to harden as you move toward anti-love.
"drd's" Blog
Ooh Visit Our Twitter Group 1000 plus strong and growing!
Visit our Facebook effort, it will make ya smile!
Visit our MySpace effort, it will make you glad you did!
Visit our YouTube- it is truly, going to be AWESOME- 3DEEP is coming! Soon!
No comments:
Post a Comment