Love - without qualifications?

It's pretty funny, we know what love is, you really don't have to explain it to people, they aren't stupid; they know.  Bet me they don't? 

Lately I've heard a rash of sermons which wanna explain to me what the Greek's thought love was, and how they defined it, and how that's what the writers of the New Testament meant, by certain words, when they
used them?  Not sure such is the
case for us today- you see, I know,
instantly, where a person is at with
me emotionally- we connect- or
we don't- and if we don't, and if
there is a chance that we might,
then that person gets what is less
than what someone that I love gets. 

Now while your busily thinking,
"and this has what to do with Jesus..."
let me just help you out a bit, look
at how Jesus reacts to those who
walked every day with him, and
look at how He reacted to those
who were in the crowd- and then also,
consider those who actively sought
to kill Him?  He knew, didn't he? 

We know- don't we?  So the question
then becomes, if Christian's say, SAY,
that they are loving someone- are they? 
Is it time, perhaps, for the reality
check that gets beyond saying one
thing and doing another, if we don't,
how can we ever get to the point
where we actually, love somebody?